When we start falling in love

 بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

مَا جَعَلَ اللَّهُ لِرَجُلٍ مِنْ قَلْبَيْنِ فِي جَوْفِه

“Allah has not made for a man two hearts in his interior.”

 [QS Al-Ahzab, 33:4]

Who had experienced in falling in love to someone, put your hands up? Oh, it seems like every hands just on the mouse. So, in shaa Allah all the readers are innocent. It means no one had experienced in falling in love. Even if falling in love and couple are two different things, but that is not what I’m going to discuss now.

Falling in love

When we start falling in love to someone, we are tending to look at her/him. Even if we couldn’t look at his/her face, just by looking at his/her letter or picture it’s enough.

When we start falling in love to someone, we will be very sensitive to people who talked about him/her. With just hearing his/her name, not occasionally correct but we begin to face flushed. Hearts start flowery. Moreover, if there are people who talked about his/her beauty, well again ~ we felt like in heaven. Whereas it’s nothing, just the beginning in falling in love.

When we start falling in love, every time we wake up in the morning, we are going to look at our inbox message. We fear that there will be a message that has not been replied. Suddenly, there is 10 miscall! Again we feel nervous and fear, as we afraid that he/she would get angry and didn’t want to talk and be friend with us anymore.

When we start falling in love to someone, we will always ensure to be the best appearance. What he/she like, we will prevail.

When we start falling in love to someone, anyone willing to spend RM10 per night just wanted to hear his/her voice.

When we start falling in love to someone, we will always remember her/him. Every time we want to eat or sleep, we remembered him/her. Even there is a little spare time, must be reminded of him/her.

When we start falling in love to someone, we willing to sacrifice anything for her/him.

But, the question is, when is the first time we fell in love with Allah?

The second question is, when was the last time we made love with Allah? Or we are a kind of never know what is love?

When we first fall in love with Allah, how often do we tend to look at the words of Him? Although we can’t look at His face, but we can read and recite His words in the verse of Quran was enough. Was not it?

When we first fall in love to Allah, how sensitive we are to the people who talked about Him?

When we first fall in love with Allah, every time we wake up, we'll look at the clock in the handset, we feared that we will miss tahajjud. Moreover, we miss the Fajr. Then we feel nervous of fear for being late to pray. He would be angry and do not want to spread the joy to us again for the whole day. Was not it?

When we first fall in love with Allah, we will always ensure to be the best appearance. What was He like, we will prevail. The most important thing is we will take care of the cleanliness of heart because Allah does not look on the exterior, but the heart. Was not it?

When we first fall in love with Allah, how many ringgits that we are willing to spend a week to remember Allah? How many ringgits that we are willing to spend a week to help or make missionary and charity work? RM1? RM2? Or are we willing to work as long as effective missionary work?

When we first fall in love with Allah, how many times a day we will remember Him? When we are going to eat and sleep, we remembered Him.

When we first fall in love with Allah, is it true that many of us are willing to sacrifice anything for him?

Return to yourself

all the question we ask ourselves. Whatever the answer, return to ourselves. Because if love is still problematic in our hearts, how we want to fix the problem of love in others.

It’s enough. For too many people the world over loved by them. Desires to be their guide. Until, they lived like a dog. Would we rather like it?

“And if We had willed, we could have elevated him thereby, but he adhered [instead] to the earth and followed his own desire. So his example is like that of the dog: if you chase him, he pants, or if you leave him, he [still] pants. That is the example of the people who denied Our signs. So relate the stories that perhaps they will give thought.”

[QS Al-A'raf, 7:176]

Or do we want to be compared by Him like livestock?

“And We have certainly created for Hell many of the jinn and mankind. They have hearts with which they do not understand, they have eyes with which they do not see, and they have ears with which they do not hear. Those are like livestock; rather, they are more astray. It is they who are the heedless.”

[QS Al-A’raf, 7:179]

Put hand on your heart and ask your faith. If there is no faith, go seek. Don’t wait. Guidance should be sought not wait. We have the right to choose what level of love for our heart.

مَا جَعَلَ اللَّهُ لِرَجُلٍ مِنْ قَلْبَيْنِ فِي جَوْفِه

“Allah has not made for a man two hearts in his interior.”

 [QS Al-Ahzab, 33:4]

“Has the time not come for those who have believed that their hearts should become humbly submissive at the remembrance of Allah and what has come down of the truth? And let them not be like those who were given the Scripture before, and a long period passed over them, so their hearts hardened; and many of them are defiantly disobedient. “

[QS Al-Hadid, 57:16]

This is the time.